Attachment Therapy – Therapy attachment disorders, emerged as a method of treating certain „syndrome,“ „reactive attachment disorders“ and quickly gained popularity. It’s amazing, but most of the tools that use these „psychologists“, taken from the training courses for dogs, and in fact, the authors do not even hide it. The essence of it is this: the children use different forms of violence, to the point that they could be rolled up in a carpet. If they resist, then they bore down all adult carcass and lays on them until they calm down. Proponents of these methods are confident that in this way teach the adopted child to her. This confidence is based on the rather strange interpretation of the principle viktivnosti, became interested in the professional community in the last decade. Speak Now in psychological circles about viktivnoy victim generally quite fashionable. This principle is well disclosed in the old classic film „The Night Porter“. I recall, the plot at the hotel a former concentration camp inmate accidentally meets his executioner, and many years after the war, she has a liking to him. This is a victim complex.
Hiding behind the idea, parents torturing children. It is believed that after a while, when the agony is over, there is a baby attached to their parents, on the one hand. On the other, it (the child) now behave as you like, because it is already broken. The idea is that he will be grateful for the fact that they stopped torturing. Still, when a child is „press-fitted“ to the animal state, suddenly there is a tormentor, but in the role of a good parent who regrets and pats on the head. This is called a victim complex.
USA. Rehabilitation therapy attachment
Please note that while these methods of education in the United States will not be prosecuted. At the same time, in this country, „Juvenile“ normal disciplinary measures when parents spank a child or make comments to education, called the violence. Now called the same violence as a form of accustoming the child to the adoptive parents.
All serious psychologists do not recognize the new school, putting it another „New Age sect,“ but in the U.S., this school is very, very popular. Very often children are exposed to methods of Soviet countries, Soviet families. This is not surprising, because in many respects they are quite different, they are brought up differently, they often have already been laid alien to the local culture behavioral patterns, so they have to break down, that they then do not cause discomfort. Human rights organizations in the U.S. who oppose practices „therapy of affection“, believe that at least in cases with brutally tortured Vanya Skorobogatov, Vitya Tulimovym, Dima Uritskogo methods were used just such a „treatment“, and their adoptive parents were zealous advocates of this ‚psychological school. „
Of course, not all of the American public to do so under. I think most of the American public to do this do not care. But of course, there are psychologists and just good people who know about this „fashion“ and are trying to raise their voice against it. In fact, this is a real fascism. And now I make myself not metaphorically, but just give a reasonable estimate of the phenomenon. We often rush this term, and thus detracts somewhat horror of fascism as such. These methods is fascism in its purest form.
Director of the Institute of Demographic Security Irina Medvedev for to Nakanune.RU